Be A Woman

Be a woman isn’t easy. Why?? Because woman, by the weakness and the smoothness, they have to be able in keeping their self. As we know that woman has an important role in this world. Not only as a mediator for human living, but also as one of an important thing that influences the development one country.

A country can develop if the women are good and get a bad development if the women are bad. Why it can be like that??
Because good women will educate their children carefully. Children that will be the next generation who will continue the development of the country.
So, it is right if the woman (especially mother) is a person who determines in developing of civilization.
But in fact, women in this moment as not as good that we hope. Some of them have not be able to keep their respect. They permit men to enjoy their body.
Here are types of women if we consider them as a food.
1. Type of “pisang goreng”
• Pisang goreng is made from a cheap material
• Way of making it is easy
• Pisang goreng is sold at the side of road
• It is sold with a cheap price
• People who buy it just ordinary person, not special
• We can touch it before we buy it.

2. Type of “lapis legit”
• Lapis legit is made from an expensive material
• Way of making it is easy
• Lapis legit is sold at the good shop
• It is sold with an expensive price
• People who buy it is a special person, most of them are rich person
• When we want to buy it, w just chose one and buy it directly. We don’t try before because the quality is guaranteed.
We can imagine woman as a food. Pisang goreng women are women who can’t keep their respect, in other to be easy in disturbing by the other people.
Whereas lapis legit women, they can keep their respect. Of course, they get good response from the people around them as effect from their attitude.
So, how to keep the respect from the women today?? Actually Allah SWT has given solution to help women in keeping their respection. We can get it from QS. AL-ahzab ayat 59.
As a conclusion, I think it’s important for us as women to know about types of women. In other that we can make introspection for our self and can make efforts in improving our self better and better.
It is important too for man, because one day, of course men want to have good person to be couple with them. But you have to remember that if we want to have a good person to b our couple, of course, we have to be a good person before. Like in QS. An-Nur ayat 26. So, for women, which one you want to be???
Pisang goreng or lapis legit???

by fi hifzhillah